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You are Now Ready to Pursue the Wedding After Your Engagement

June 12, 2019 by admin Leave a Comment

 

Your engagement is the first step on your path to marriage. It does not mean though that you need to marry your partner right away. The engagement is the opportunity for you to get to know each other and determine if you are happy to pursue the wedding. It is also the time when most couples break up because they realise that they are not meant for each other.

The problem is when you have already agreed to get married, but it has been some time since the engagement. It is understandable if you are planning an elaborate wedding and you still need to attend to a lot of details. If you are not doing anything to pursue the wedding even after some time, it might be a sign that you are not going to marry at all. There is no point in continuing the plans as you might be falling out of love.

Be aware of your feelings

After the engagement, many things will change. You might see another side of your partner that you never saw before. Ask yourself if you are willing to accept these flaws, or if you cannot tolerate them. After months of engagement, you might ask yourself if you are looking forward to getting married, or you cannot wait to get out of the relationship. If you say that you are happy to get married finally, you do not need to wait any longer.

Start planning

Another reason why you need to get engaged first before marrying is that you want time before you finally get married. Weddings are expensive. Given all the details you need to deal with, it is possible that you spend your entire savings. Therefore, you need to take the opportunity to plan all the details and agree on how much you are willing to spend. Prioritise the difficult aspects like the wedding venue and wedding cars since you might have to reserve them sooner than later.

Spend time with each other’s family

When you are marrying someone, you are not only going to marry the person. You will also get married to the family. Therefore, it is crucial that you endear yourself with the family. Try your best to at least spend time with the people your partner loves and allow your family to also spend time with the person you love. It is awkward at first, but it will get better over time.

You still need to prepare for the marriage

You might be too busy now to prepare for the wedding. You might eventually spend a lot of money to make the best possible wedding. You forget that the wedding day is only the first day of your journey to forever. You need to be busier preparing for your marriage. You still have a long path ahead together. Be patient in the entire process and be willing to embrace the sides of your partner you never expected. You hope that the marriage will last and so will the people around you.

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